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    EAT WHAT YOUR SPOUSE COOKS!
    I didn't say it was good... I simply ate what I was given and asked for seconds. Feel free to forward this marriage advice on to younger couples.
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    1. Kyle

      Its kind of frightening how many people missed the point of this video. So let me explain: They were newly married, obviously in financial stress if shopping at a dented can grocery store, and she went to the trouble of shopping and cooking dinner for him. Dustin chose to acknowledge her labor and love for him and ate the bad food without complaint. She knew it was bad, she knew he thought it was bad too, but he communicated something much deeper and more loving by his actions than he could have by words. In that moment, in that time of stress in their lives, a gesture of unconditional love to his wife was much more powerful and wise than brutal honesty. There is a place for food criticism, and of course honesty is crucial in a marriage. But honesty wasnt needed, they both knew it was bad. As for any of you who think he did it only so she would continue cooking for him, and not that he did it as an act of marital love, i cant fix your cynicism.

      1. Kyle

        @Chickent_Nug 2 years ago when I said this, it was a brand new video and the comments were flooded with people saying their marriage wasn’t honest and that Destin wasn’t being a good husband. I’m assuming enough rational people have drowned out those comments by now.

      2. Chickent_Nug

        How many people missed this? Seems obvious to me

      3. Colby Wood

        People have different palettes, maybe he just didn’t mind the sloppy joes 😂

      4. Robin Häggqvist

        It was pretty easy to tell.

      5. Ross Hanahan

        Perfectly said.

    2. Jason Kubik

      Good laugh and at 5 second rule, hit the like button! 😆

    3. Felix Kunz

      4:23 Find yourselves a Proverbes 31 women... You hit the nail on the head.

    4. Pablo

      SMARTER EVERYDAY lmaoooooooooo

    5. Adequate Bus

      39-years happily (well, mostly) married, here. I always tell her that she is beautiful especially in the morning and especially when I can see that she's off, always buy (or pick) her flowers on Friday, and always eat whatever she has managed to put onto the table, even years ago through several thin and tight recession times. I remember having to buy the off-brand, cheap ketchup. We couldn't afford real ketchup. Marriage ain't brain surgery, but it can be hard, maybe because it is so simple: love and trust and respect, especially when it's hard. -C

    6. Ethan Bracker

      The B&B resale store in Ashville AL.

    7. Mary Lagua

      She’s a good cook!!

    8. Nir Matt

      This grocery store is so demn American

    9. Joel Miltenberger

      Man, that dish your wife made looks really good!

    10. downhilltwofour00

      Great advise and a great relationship there!

    11. ARTEMISIA 999

      I ship them soooooooo hard !!!! 💓✌💋

    12. Adish Jain

      Plot twist* sponsored by manwich

    13. Chimichanga Lesbo

      You sir have gained a new fan today.

    14. VoceCorale

      Today you made me smarter, but also hungry

    15. Igor Radov

      I wonder what kind of humans dislike this video

    16. Rhyme& Reason

      As with most things in life it's not that simple. Some people (like Justin is suspect) self evaluate and strive to improve on their own. Other people never do so without getting feedback. What kind of marriage is it if you suffer every meal and can never have a truthful discussion? Good marriages result from good communication - even on difficult subjects.

    17. Ginnungagap42

      This made me smile. I do the cooking in our family, and usually it's edible. Just the other day, I burned the heck out of our dirty rice, but my wife smiled and ate it anyway. We've been together for 33 years.

    18. Steven Yunghans

      FIVE SECOND RULE!!!! That's awesome!!!!! =)

    19. Syed Ahmed Reza

      Destin you are awesome. I agree with you 100%

    20. Olds Jetfire

      Life can be unfair. My wife loves to cook and great at it. I am the second pickiest eater on Earth. My oldest girl is the pickiest on Earth. My wife is the dream of many men that loves to eat but she is stuck with really picky eaters.

      1. Olds Jetfire

        She has put up with me for 20 years so far.

    21. Mary Lagua

      😆

    22. vectrexer

      LOL!

    23. Mark Riley

      Dude the chicken didn't look that good. Open the can of dented sloppy Joe! Lol! Great video!

      1. Mark Riley

        I've been divorced 3 times so dont listen to me!

    24. gh0strid3r92

      but why u use those single use alu stuff?

    25. Gary Blakey

      There are very Few SEprom channels i would recommend But "Smarter Every Day" Is Number 1 .

    26. Mr C

      I just tell my wife I'm not hungry. 🤪

    27. hardlyb

      I made the mistake of telling my wife, early in the marriage, that she had overcooked a pork chop. It was years before she cooked for me again.

    28. Gulli Jlo

      genius thanks

    29. R King

      1) your wife seems charming 2) extremely sage advice. Been married 32 years here.. My wife loves cooking.. but I still thank her for the meal even if it is 'less stellar'. There are actually a LOT of things like this in a marriage. Things where appreciation can be expressed for very simple acts. Appreciation is SO important in marriage. Love can be said with words.. but ACTIONS mean SO much more. Rx for a good marriage: show appreciation, plenty of hugs, plenty of kisses, find humor in your own failings... do this daily.

    30. martins apsitis

      Just tops, great to see your delicious menu trajectory.

    31. random shmoe

      The second most important thing I learned today is marriage advice. the first is that the 5 second rule is real, and scientific: 3:48

    32. Blankfaceman

      You guys are cute together love you both

    33. Joseph Reneer

      You’re the man!

    34. Dr. Hisham Abdul Majeed

      You two look remarkably similar

    35. Manuel Seco Ruiz

      You both are so awesome.

    36. Anthony O

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    37. Gary Ha

      Five second rule lol. I used that earlier today at a neighbor's house when their 12 year old picked up the chocolate rectangle from Cherry Garcia he had dropped on the floor and popped it in his mouth. He knew what I was talking about, knowingly smiled and said "I just don't care". Yeah well, those whole chocolate piece numbers were limited. So it was funny to see this science expert (Destin) mention it, and I was hoping I might talk him into one day doing a video examining the claim but wait, turns out someone already did: "The five-second rule states that food dropped on the ground will be safe to eat and not covered in germs as long as it is picked up within 5 seconds of being dropped. This experiment will evaluate whether there is any truth to this theory." At the source of that, there's a nice experiment described but I didn't notice what I was looking for, a video. Happily, clicking on 'Videos' there are some. I watched one by Science News where the presenter used agar to culture bacteria under certain conditions to find out. I know you're all going to love the result she came up with because it is science. Yeah, it's false. Meanwhile, we all know in our hearts when we say 'five second rule' while gobbling up food off the floor that it is accompanied by tongue planted firmly in cheek (said "tongue-in-cheek") since we sense it isn't true, right? Best bet in answering that might be to go along with whatever the alpha spouse is likely to think. :)

      1. Anthony O

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    38. Mellissa Dalby

      I respect and admire anyone who can stay happily married for a great length of time. It'd harder than it looks.

    39. Naveen Mysore

      i love you both!!! sending love

    40. Dustin Hanson

      Reminds me of a Dane Cook bit: What is the key? Cheat!

    41. Trying to learn

      Bad advice

    42. Christian Hernandez

      Destin Thank you so much for posting your life for us and making us better and smarter every day. Thank You.

    43. R

      For the first month or so of our marriage, my wife would call me just before I got off work or immediately when I got home and ask what I wanted for dinner. This would begin the 10- minute conversation with each of us asking what meal would suit our mood. (" I don't know. What do you feel like having?" I was a desk supervisor at Kelly Temporary Services and office work was new to me and brought on a new level of stress. Once day was particularly gruelling and when I arrived home she was eager to cook whatever I wanted. I sat her down and held her hand and explained, "Honey, I completely trust your cooking and after a day with making so many decisions that having to decide for our home what we should eat is frustrating. So, you cook it and I'll eat it." She never had to ask me again and there wasn't peace in our home. We.also agreed if & when she worked, whoever cooked, the other would clean. It was our proper arrangement. And it worked great.

    44. JBass14

      I've used this advice with my wife, even tho I'm the one cooking most the time 🤣 Thanks Destin!!

    45. USiddiqui

      Next time, please make this video 5 years ago and not 2 years ago. Sheesh.

    46. esphi LEE

      The old man was right. No need to criticize. If you want to be very honest, you may not need to ask for second, you may not need to praise the cooking. Just finish it and do not complain. That is the least you can do.

    47. P.B Physics

      Atheists like here

    48. Mariana A.

      This guy is so sexist and closed minded. From their kids saying "sir" after every sentence, to his dad saying "no matter what your wife cooks you eat twice"... Is not like "if you both eat you both cook and clean". I can't keep watching a "smarter every day" guy that insist on not questioning gender roles and hierarchical status of a male in a family.

      1. Meme deputy

        You sound like an awful person. Keep crying

      2. Meme deputy

        You sound like an awful person. Keep crying

    49. Dan Rodrigues

      Bent and dent store? I have never heard that term. I'm assuming that the store is a lower end quality product store? When's Manwich night? I haven't had that in years...

    50. Clyde Cessna

      Sage advice.

    51. Kenneth Butler

      Love this channel! I’d love to meet this guy some day

    52. Boody Zina

      Noted

    53. seemo

      mashalla it's so wholesome and happy-ish

    54. Jason Bruce

      I came here hoping to find a cool slow mo video... Found something heartwarming instead. What a great relationship.

    55. Yogi Beer

      When we first got married my wife’s cooking was so bad that the flies all pitched in and had our screens fixed.

    56. Mo Ki

      cute. love radiates from this video

    57. ScrotNimation

      Don’t worry destin. You don’t have to worry about my marriage. My waifu won’t cook anyway

    58. Ctuome853

      Bruh food club is goated here in MN😤

    59. Talley Whyte

      I do wish I was better with this... My father was always so tactful at telling my mom what was wrong with dinner and so good about complimenting a well made meal that I just assumed thats what everyone wanted to hear... Needless to say there have been issues...

    60. Christopher Chang

      How does smartereveryday not have a hood for his stove? All that grease just aerosolizing and sticking to the ceiling, floors, cabinets and furniture!!! gross

    61. goteverlastinglife

      Watching during the 2020 Pandemic.

    62. Joey VanOstrand

      #1 - Always remind her how beautiful she is. #2 - Always remind her that there is NO ONE on the face of the Earth but her. #3 - If you are in a bad mood, keep your friggin' sewer SHUT! #4 - Do what you are told. Just do it.

    63. kaymezRap

      i have a better advice for you. stop asuming that your wife has to cook for you, and cook for her on a regular basis.

      1. Sooners84

        Great job missing the point of the entire video!

    64. Edi Alijagić

      Smarter every day: five second rule

    65. Abdur Rouf Khalid

      You guys are such a sweet husband & wife

    66. Brandon Hultgren

      Good man, great advice.

    67. DedSecWD MY

      I hope i don't be like my parents

    68. prasad yalla

      Great video man!! It is wonderful to see long, stable marriages!! These are what the West really needs a lot!!

    69. gabe st angel

      Why do I feel like this dude beats his wife lmao

    70. Journey of a Lifetime

      Tried this method 30 years ago. Are tons of inedible garbage full of bad fats and chemicals for years. Almost died. Worst advice ever. Divorce was worth it.

    71. nesa1126

      Respect things that (close) people do for you and be grateful. Wholesome.

    72. Rutch Johnson

      Can we get more of these marriage stories? I just love your approach from a Christian perspective :)

    73. Matthew Hall

      Thankyou Destin I appreciate this advice as I'm about to ask my gf to marry me I really look up to you and your family

    74. Joseph Rous

      Love this

    75. Stephanie Duncan

      Lies and Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it’s a major threat to most marriages and relationships.Scars left behind from a narcissist husband is hard to erase from the mind. I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it .I got help from Cyber Hack Solutions as he helped clone my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work and I was able to track his location too, all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone and ended things.I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this amazing Hacker David via gmail (cyberhack003) or text and call on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744

    76. Pigeon Man

      Been married for 9 months and I will always ask for seconds. Thanks Destin.

    77. Jason taylor

      I want more of these videos. The ones that teach life lessons. Like learning about taxes in school. This video has made me a better person.

    78. Zuplex

      You are so cute together!

    79. GG

      Sloppy joes in Australia are jumpers. 😂

    80. Bisley Blackhawk

      My beloved late wife (God rest her soul) made one meal that neither one of us could eat (in our first month of marriage)...a meatloaf...I blame the ground beef she purchased from a mom and pop grocery store (cheap) that was near to us...I tried to eat it until she said “this is awful, you don’t have to eat it”. She never fixed another bad meal in the 46 years we were married. I miss her on so many levels.

    81. Andrezzi

      Eat it get food poisoning ask for seconds 200 IQ smarter every day.

    82. Sanjid Rahman

      You know he actually is trying to smarten you up everyday when he posts marriage advice in a science channel. Although I did get a good advice one thing is certain...I don't think I will ever be ready for marriage and that whole part of adulthood ever in my life...Destin you frightened me man...

    83. Tiny Ford

      Destin... how many of those hats do you own? Just curious

    84. Craig Corson

      I am envious of your relationship with your wife. Not covetous, mind you, but definitely envious.

    85. valarauka

      don't. get. married.

    86. Lyan Villacorta

      does anyone have a link to the outro video?

    87. Brian Emerson

      So I watched this video for the first time the day it came out, but I needed to come back to it today, a year and a half later. I'm not married, I'm not even seeing anyone. But I've been trying to cook for family and friends more and this means so much. I have made some meals that I thought were great, that those who ate them thought were great. I made sweet potato pie and casserole from my own garden. I made lasagna and I made soybean paste stew. Only one person joined me to eat those things - my friend who cooked with me. She ate one whole sweet potato pie herself, she liked it so much. That meant so much to me, but my family and other friends didn't want any. They've barely ever eaten anything I've made, and *never* asked for seconds. That is such a downer when you enjoy cooking for others, as I do. Anyway, I'm rambling. I really came here to say, Destin, that you should make a second channel, or maybe just a series on this one, with videos like this, entitled, "Wiser Every Day." Maybe collab with some other SEpromrs and influencers.

    88. Mark Bisson

      Maybe you should have started a second channel called, "Wisdom Every Day".

    89. Adam Rosenberg

      use reusable bags!

    90. masterwillems

      This is the best advice and insight in scientific matter that this channel produced.....j/k ofcourse love your channel!

    91. stetkal

      Love it!

    92. Gabriel Gallegos

      Really good advice.

    93. Amin

      This is the single most hardest rule and advice to follow, but one of the best

    94. Olzhas Zait

      Thank you! I just got married!)))) SEprom recommendations are getting better.

    95. Dart Harpy

      Wiser today, thanks

    96. Random FPV

      Destin you sir are an incredibly intelligent and wise man. I admire you.

    97. cpt.onBoard

      I love her nose 😂

    98. Vulgar Pupil

      i been to that store

    99. Enlightened ☀️

      Cute. By the way google censored me on another vid so I will re add it here. A. I would use 500$m to rescue dogs not build terminators. B. You ARE on the chart fence sitter. C. Ivanka could be the first female potus 👩🏼‍⚖️🇺🇸. D. Zuck is a wanna be censoring commie too so I hope FB goes bankrupt. 📉😁

    100. garet claborn

      Don't look a gift-plate in the ingredients haha